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When A Man Wants To Be In A Relationship After The First Date Is It Flattering Or Scary? These Women Tell Their Stories…

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If you think it’s only men who are being pressured to “Put A Ring On It” think again! More women than ever are complaining that men are trying to lock them down, some as soon as the first date. Karen, who is an accountant, said two of the last three men she’s gone on dinner dates with have asked her to meet their families and even suggested marriage…one the first date! Some would think this kind of offer would be an honor but when it happens too soon it can be a red flag.

“That’s not a compliment to me,” Karen said. “When a man offers to introduce you to his mama on the first, second, or third date, it comes off as desperate. I’m thinking to myself, I don’t even know you dude.”


  • Men who behave like this are narcissist and do NOT take the woman’s feelings, lifestyle, history into consideration. If she has children, CAUTION is the first word on her mind. Since growing up the past 30 years and dated domestic and international and still single, by choice. I learned a lot and have been stalked by a PhD, who stole my jewelry, my mother & grandmothers also to gamble at casinos, while saying he was away on medical conference, even to meet Donna Shalala in DC!

    Men are not knowing what “LOVE” means they just want to hear a woman say it and then they perform the social dance she requires and sharing misogynistic stories with their buddies.

    Unfortunately, most did not have proper father figures in their puberty years to demonstrate what it is to treat another human being well, let alone a woman and often children.

    So Sad to say.

  • If a man wanted to be in relationship from day 1 that is scary for me. I instantly think that something is wrong with this person woman or man. Because I know I am good woman but it does not come across on the first date. I would stay away from him/her.

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