If You Were A Man Would You Marry Today’s Woman?
Recently a friend of mine decided to get married. He took several photos of the moment he proposed to his girlfriend and he forwarded them to me. The expression on her face made me smile, it reminded me of when I proposed to my former wife many years ago. Yes, I was married and it was one of the best relationships I ever had. Even though we ultimately divorced I have no regrets except that I wish I could’ve been more mature and appreciative of her.
My friend is just one example of the many men I’ve known throughout my life who were married and are currently married. So when I hear women complain that men don’t want to make a commitment I can’t help but wonder about the source of these complaints.
The vast majority of the guys I’ve interacted with over the past 20 years of writing, speaking, hosting national TV and radio shows tell me that marriage doesn’t scare them it’s the attitude of today’s woman. Don’t get me wrong; I know men can be selfish and want to have their cake and eat it too. But we must also examine the quality of women they have to choose from. To make my point, I challenge women to answers these questions.